Last Sunday, I gave my oldest child a graduation/birthday party. She will be turning eighteen. What is even more exciting is that she will be attending college in a few weeks. Everyone is so happy for her and I am encouraged about her future. What I didn't expect however, was how incredibly saddened I would be. No one ever prepared me for that. As I watched the members of her village gather around her and share thoughts and words of encouragement with her...I knew in my heart that she has had the right training ground to make it in any setting. She is poised, well-spoken, thoughtful and savvy. But most importantly, she is loved and good people pour into her spirit often. I guess in all honesty I should relax and enjoy this ride...
Well maybe four years from now I will...but today...my thoughts are bittersweet. I should have known that when you raise leaders...at some point...they must go and lead..
So Here's to you Lei! I love you and I am thinking about your wellness today. I am also being a little selfish and refusing to let go of my precious memories, but I love you enough to flow in my true anointing of Motherhood, which inherently includes, letting go.... Happy Future Baby...and here are some things I need you to remember while you are away and throughout your journey of life: 1) challenge authority when it smells like oppression 2) Be true to yourself as you learn yourself 3) own your lessons and praise your accomplishments 4) that piece of the pie is YOURS...it was already set aside for you...just go get it...5) give back to the village and always lift as you climb 6) Follow your first mind...because that is God...7) talk to God as you go through your day, you will be guided always 8)Remember that eagles do not fly with pigeons...they only soar alone 9 )Get real clear about your worth...and remember it is not the world's job to determine your worth, thus it cannot be determined by any outside influence...it will only come from a knowledge of who you are, and who Created you 10) no matter what you do My Love...be the best because that is who you truly are 11) finally, remember you are a free spirit which makes you open to new ideas. Be careful with that gift, for it is only to fight oppression and to generate creativity. The responsibility of being a free spirit includes a commitment to a sense of balance and wholeness. Learn to discern the difference between distortions and free thinking. Even freedom has some guidelines, and if you are ever unsure, consult your inner spirit...you can always find clarity there.
I love you Beautiful...and you can always count on that reality.
Forever
Mommy... © 2005 ALL RIGHTS RESERVED
4 comments:
Excellent insight with enough love to fill the skies. If you ever need a helping hand, an ear or someone to bounce ideas off of, I'm here.
I know what you are going through, but you will get through it. My youngest child is on his way to college. I never thought this time in my life will come. But you should be encouraged because soon you will have time just for you, and then the world can watch out because I know you are going to do damage girl!!
Much Love
Kay
It is clear that you are a devoted parent an a fine person. Does your insight come from a book or life or a bit of both? Do you have other children? Do you mentor to other family members? Finally ,you should write a book.
Hey Girl:
You are the epitome of okay(ness). Having the ability to express your true feelings and coming to grip with them is the ultimate. As parents and creators we sometimes worry about our parenting as well as the humans we molded & created. But, be courageous and have an assurance that you modeled what you wanted her to be. Contain the certainty that every value and moral belief you wanted her to learn; she has. Finally, have the understanding, that as a leader you have demonstrated the neccessities of life, love, spirituality, and faith, and from this comfort will come. Be Blessed and know that Lei knows your number and will call if chaos arises in her life.
Peace and Blessings
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